OK - i was wrong, a bit at least.
Met my friends and their new daugther last Friday -and it’s a completely new life for them. Especially for the father. I was great to see though - a lot of love in the air. So - the “still being us”-thing will probably fade for a while but i am sure that it will come back and that they will watch sopranos late at night even though the baby needs to sleep.
But they will never fall into the super-parents-trap! I am sure of that at least.